FEEL A LITTLE ALONE

There are times when we realize that we have hit rock bottom, it is horrible to realize, it hurts to see how little by little we are losing our essence, we are becoming someone we do not like, we put aside the people who love us, we become blind, deaf and do things to us that perhaps we didn’t think we were capable of.

Little by little we close ourselves off from others, we distance ourselves from everyone and when we realize we are already completely alone, with no one to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, and no one to listen to us and give us advice.

When you get to the bottom, you feel tired and it’s not specifically physical, it’s that hitting bottom hurts, our insides hurt, you fill up little by little with all that you didn’t say for a moment, that hurt you, you keep all your feelings good and bad, those frustrations, loneliness, anger, hate. all that you would like sometimes to be able to talk to someone who you feel understands you without judging but in the end you live it alone because in reality you are in a dark hole with no one to support you and at least give you a hug and tell you, everything will be right.

We all go through moments like this for different reasons although in front of the world it seems that we have a perfect life, that we are happy, it seems that we never have problems but deep down only each person in their soul knows the truth and everything that we keep and try to work on ourselves, in total silence. Nobody has perfect lives, only that over the years we learn to be more reserved, to solve our problems alone, and yes, why not also to cry alone and then go out with the best smile.

I don’t know what problem you will have today, I don’t know what reason is making you lose your beautiful essence, your personality, if you are just fighting every day to be the same person again, be patient, just as the sun comes out bright after the storm, we in the same way shine again with that own and brilliant light with which God created us as the womb of our mothers. Patience difficult but not impossible. Sometimes alone but wanting to be better every day than yesterday.

When we realize that we hit rock bottom it is not all bad, it is the right time to get up and change because the first thing is to recognize that we are wrong, and even if we are alone, all that bad will make us stronger.

Today I can be the one who feels alone, who feels lost, who really needs someone, tomorrow it can be you, and if someone who reads this feels like this without seeing a solution, a big hug for you even if I don’t know you, we all need it , One thing I love are strong and sincere hugs because without the need to speak they can calm the pain you carry inside, they can give you happiness and comfort in your soul, it is such a beautiful way to give love to those who need it most.