Could it be that you have ever asked this question.
Who is braver, who stays or who leaves?
Each person has their answer. I personally believe that the bravest is the one who leaves.
Because even if he leaves, most of the time it’s not because he really wants to leave and that hurts more.
But it is more than clear that it is not worth staying in a place where they do not want you, they want you at times, or they love you a lot but in a bad way.
But you must be clear when to do it and why do you leave.
So enough to say that running away is cowardly. because everyone is being brave when it comes to changing their course, their life.
A couple is a job of two and each one must give 100%, if they are going to fight it is a matter of two, one can not do it, both must have the same feeling and be guided by the same course.
I have met several couples who attend couples therapies, with one and with another therapist without finding any solution, and wonder why?
But when they talk to me about their problems and how is the relationship I can realize that only one is who wants to solve their marriage and resolve their differences. I am not a therapist but anyone can realize why they still can not solve it.
It is complicated and sad to see how a couple of years and with children reach the point of hating themselves and not being able to live under the same roof.
The saddest thing that those who suffer the most are the children, even worse when they are little ones, they are the most innocent in this case, they can not understand why their parents act as they do.
It is a difficult process, but it is not impossible and for both to work, they must want the same, otherwise everything gets worse and they suffer even more.
With love. Sahory 😉
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